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adultery

i am reposting an article from triple x which he posted sometime ago.

last night, a friend of mine poured his heart out on me, because of his "fallin out" with his wife (sigh) because of another girl. he insisted he still loved his wife, but was confused (really, hehehe! boys!)

sabi ko nga, talaga naman, ako pa pinagtanungan ng mga ganitong bagay bagay ;0) i have never been married, at least not technically, wala pa kong "I do.... and in sickness and in health til death do we part". I have not professed this to GOD and to a priest or any person authorized to administer marriage.

This is why i thought of reposting this article i got from triplex. i decided to post only the article, in the original blog entry, triple x shared some of his thoughts na baka hindi kayanin ng readers ko, (hehehe! i may be "violent" in my blogs, pero at least wholesome pa rin)

so read on.... let's be good boys and gels, oki? ;0)

ADULTERY

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have."Wow,this girl in my office is a real looker. I'mcrazy about her because she's also understanding,intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not."Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a manwho will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring.More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you andpursue you and go loco over you more than your spouseever did. Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 90% of what you're looking for.So adultery takes place when a husband or wifelooks for the missing 10%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter. Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil,you may fallfor a fresh-smelling young sales representativethat visits your office in a sharp black blazer, highheels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.Don't throw away the 90% that you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all theyears that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talkingabout life! About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your lifestyles. Are you like the economy airline? The main message:If you start appreciating what you have right now,wherever you are is FIRST CLASS!

sucked out life @ 10:36 AM